The Trade Off

I made the choice to become the household red hat (in Notre Dame country that makes me the play caller of the house, aka a stay-at-home mom).  After years of working in a demanding job with lots of travel away from home, I decided that I really wanted to spend more time with my boys.  They are still young and want to have me around...I know this doesn't last forever.  In order to make this adjustment it meant a few trade offs needed to take place.  I had a very nice job that paid well it was great stable income; now that is gone.  We made this all happen by cashing in some investments; using the money to pay off ALL our outstanding debt (except the mortgage).  This means eating out will now be a real treat, and fast food night will depend on who has the "kids eat free" special.  I gladly traded my beautiful 2011 (yep, 2011) Honda Pilot for my "New" 2009 Subaru Forrester.  I must say while that is a big adjustment, it was well worth it in my eyes.  To make a little extra money each month I will sub teaching at several schools in the local area during the school year.  This is the beginning of a big change in our household.  BTW, I'm a happily married mom with 2 boys (ages 8 & 5 as of Oct. 2011).  I really love my new job!!!